If you could give one bit of advice to your younger self about relationships what would it be?
Oh, c’mon all of you out there, shouting, “Run!” Think way back or think back to yesterday depending on your age and just how much you’ve had your heart twisted out of your rib cage and stomped on. You know what it’s like when you look across the room and your eyes meet. Everything is aquiver and they say all the right things in just the right way.
My advice would be to pay attention to what they do and not what they say. Oh, the heartache that would have saved me. I’m not saying that words aren’t important or necessary. What I’m saying is if you find someone that consistently does what they say they will do, never less but sometimes more, you have a keeper. In my younger incarnation I fell in love with potential. I loved to hear the plans for what would be, it was so wonderfully distracting from what wasn’t happening.
Now, I watch carefully for actions. I don’t have enough time in my life for potential. I probably never did.
When deeds speak, words are nothing. ~African Proverb
“I fell in love with potential. I loved to hear the plans for what would be, it was so wonderfully distracting from what wasn’t happening.”
I did that too and I have thought about that over and over and over the past two and a half years and ask myself, ‘why’?
Then I look at my wonderful children and they give me my answer.
PS. Great advice to younger ones though 🙂
Yes, the silver lining.