The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. Michelangelo
Is it acceptable to still want to be something when you grow up, even at 49? Is it best to have a plan and expectations or is it better to do as I do most of the time and just have an idea and fling yourself at it? Do we still get to do that at this age? Of course I’m not saying that I don’t think about what I want to do, but if I consider what has worked in the past, I’d say launching into something full steam as if it were really already under way has been the successful approach. Starting this blog and proclaiming to people all over the world what I was in the process of doing surely made me feel as though turning back would be defeat.
This new business and non-profit is the first endeavor I’ve undertaken where my main concern is not how I will work it around my children. My youngest of four is almost 17 and the oldest nearly 30, so it’s all about me this time. What a glorious age this is. I love the woman my age too. They have done so many different things, many while raising children, and often supporting a home, that they just don’t have time to be afraid or if they are they kick it aside and march on. They’re supportive and compassionate without being patronizing. They know themselves or they are clearly on the path and don’t mind telling you what they think. Women in thier 50’s, give or take a decade, are to be envied. When I turn 50 next year I feel like I’m entering this exclusive club of creative, smart, funny, self assured people who don’t have time to take any crap from anyone and God help you if you mess with anyone they love. They are fiercely loyal and understand the value of a good girlfriend. They know what they want and also how to get it. I just love that.
Another incredible part of life at this age is I get to do some of the things I’ve dreamed about. July’s adventure is a trip to Italy. I’ve dreamed of this trip and I see no reason to waste anymore time. If you miss my ramblings I’d suggest you check out:
Oh, it’s just ridiculous how much talent and insight is out there. I could never include them all. These people and quite a few others have become a sort of blogging family for me. I feel very blessed.
Positano, Florence and Tuscany. I’m going to eat, drink, be merry, and contemplate my future as if I were 16 and it was all ahead of me, because it is. Only now I’m smarter, have no time to waste and I’m aiming higher.
There is no greater harm than that of time wasted. Michelangelo
Have a terrific time! My husband and I went in November 2010 and it was the best trip of our lives. By far. Eat a few gelati for me!
Thank you.I’m sure I’ll eat enough for both of you. I’m thnking about pasting a couple of loaves of bread to my rear just to get a glimpse of my post vacation shape.
Oooh, what a great trip and a nice surprise to see your mention! Enjoy – it sounds like you really deserve it!!!! I just turned 40 – you’re making me look forward to what is to come in the next few decades! Thanks for that!!!
What a glorious adventure awaits you!! I’m so delighted that you are dreaming up a new horizon and going forth to meet it!! I’m in my early 40’s and see what you mean; I look forward in the next decade to becoming all that you have described :). Safe travels and have more fun than you’ve ever had before!!
Thank you for recommending my blog as a substitute for your own while you are traveling. I’m am honored. Enjoy your new experiences.